Do Looks Matter? – How To Become Attractive
What you'll learn in this article:
- How to become more attractive to women
- The secrets you won't hear about money and women
- The magic rule of personal success
What makes a person attractive?
Physical traits? Good looks, good body, nice eyes? Sure, physical attraction is one thing, but girls don’t actually concentrate as much on physical attraction as men do. As a guy, you can look at a photo of a girl and in a few seconds you can decide whether you want to sleep with her or not.
We men care about looks, but girls have more on the table.
As a guy you don’t really think about things like…
“what does she do, what is her character like, what are her hobbies, what does she like to do?”
You don’t actually concentrate on those things at all, whereas a girl, if you show her a photo of a guy, she’ll want to have a little conversation with him just because she wants to see if she can connect with him.
Girls love the idea of being able to connect with a person.
She wants that whole roller coaster of emotions because she likes that excitement, whereas a guy can just see a girl and be ready to go. If you speak to a girl for a while, you may be able to sleep with her just because she sees you as an attractive human being, as an attractive person.
As a physical person, you may not be the best looking guy in the world, but your personality or your energy can give her a feeling of…
“I don’t know what it is about him, but I’m attracted to him”.
She’ll be able to see that as something which is more than physical.
As a person, you need to find different traits to make yourself attractive.
You as a character need to change your lifestyle if you are living an unattractive lifestyle… If you don’t read, if you don’t go to the gym, if you don’t eat right, if you don’t even have any interests or goals in life… you are not going to be attractive.
You might get away with it, for a single night, but you will never be able to achieve a much higher rate of success because as a character you’re just not as attractive as you might be.
Wealth isn’t just in material objects, wealth can be measured in personal gains.
You can be rich in a sense of having no money at all but having good health, good energy and a great base of knowledge.
If you have that as a person, you truly are rich. You are rich and you are attractive.
Your money means nothing at that point. If you don’t tackle all aspects of your life you will never become an attractive person.
You need to realize also that there is no end goal.
You might start at zero and going from 0 to 50% is pretty fast. If you start reading about self-development, and you’re starting at zero, you can reach 50% pretty fast by just reading a bunch of books and learning, but…
You will never reach 100. You will get closer and closer but you still never reach 100.
There is no such thing as finishing your goals. You will always be improving yourself no matter what. No one ever went to the gym, and after years of going to the gym said, “you know what, I’m finished… I finished the gym”.
You will always be improving, so you need to read as much as you can, get as much knowledge as you possibly can, go to the gym, keep a healthy lifestyle, eat healthy, eat right, etc. Build it into your system so that you have a healthy routine, a healthy lifestyle.
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In your mind there is a voice that says you’re not good enough.
That voice in your head is lying to you. It’s telling you that you’re not going to be able to reach your goal, so quit now… which is bullshit, because you can reach it as long as you have the determination to do it.
You cannot think that if you go out once or twice or even for three weekends in a row, then you’ll have “tried”… A month is nothing.
You should be going out for six months to a year to be able to say “I really tried, I really worked on myself”, and you will notice results if you go out for six months to a year and push yourself as much as you can.
Realize that you can’t just try once or twice, you have to develop it as a routine lifestyle where you’re trying every single day for a long period of time before you can quit… and even then you shouldn’t quit because you are definitely improving. You may not even notice it but you are definitely improving your lifestyle, your own personal wealth.
You attract what you are, so if you want great, be great.
You can’t just expect people to be attracted to you if you are mediocre. You’re just going to get mediocre because that’s what you are… but if you want great, you need to push yourself to the point where people can notice you and say “this guy is an attractive person”.
If you have things figured out and you know where you’re going, or at least have some sort of general direction, and you’re a hard worker, and you want to get there… you will eventually get there.
You’ve been given them and you can’t really do much about them… you may be able to shave better, lose a little bit of weight, get in shape and wear good clothes, but realize that for your looks you can only reach a certain goal.
Don’t concentrate all your energy on looks. Your looks should be the last thing that you worry about, because you’re never going to be able to change them.
You can sit and sulk for years, but it will never happen, so accept what you have, work with what you have and focus on the other areas of your life. That’s going to give you the personal wealth that you need to become attractive.